Stop seeking validation, because it’s you indirectly giving people power to break you – when or if they stop or withdraw their validations.
Someone who validates you today may feel threatened by your growth tomorrow.
Do you what’ll happen if that happens?
They’ll stop validating you.
And what will happen to you after?
Will you still be confident in yourself and your abilities to show up to shine your light WITHOUT the validations you’ve trained yourself to be used to?
Or you’ll start to second-guess yourself?
Do you see why depending on validations isn’t worth it long-term?
Stop it now.
Start developing yourself and increase your capacity daily.
That way, whoever comes or leaves won’t affect your ability to show up.
Do you understand?
Stay Sharp 🦅