Who defines your happiness? You, or others? The problem is you’re allowing others define your happiness and enjoyment for you. Na why you dey think say you must order hennessy for club, or pay outrageous …
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Stop Seeking Validation
Stop seeking validation, because it’s you indirectly giving people power to break you – when or if they stop or withdraw their validations. Someone who validates you today may feel threatened by your growth tomorrow. …
Continue readingLet’s Talk About Pair-Bonding
Pair bonding ability is one topic that’s underrated but of great importance to the society. First things First, what’s Pairbonding? “Pair bonding refers to a long-lasting emotional, psychological, and physical attachment between two individuals” If …
Continue readingAbout The Big Break You Want
The big break you want won’t come when you feel you’re ready for it. It’s sneaky, it’ll come when you least expect, at a time when most people might have given up. This is why …
Continue readingYour Gift
Everything you now enjoy were once in people’s mind. The phone or laptop you’re using to read this now… The powerbank… Clothes… Cars… or music you love. They were all in people’s mind before they …
Continue readingBefore You Upgrade Your Lifestyle
A lifestyle upgrade should be a reward for delayed gratification – that has given you structures to sustain it. Na why you no suppose dey look other people dey live your life cos you no …
Continue readingGratitude
I’ve been listening to “Blessing” by Friday and Asake. It has been on repeat and it’s making me thank God for life and everything. Omo, we get to preoccupied with our immediate needs that we …
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